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Your brain learns from rejection − here’s how it becomes your compass for connection

  • Written by Begüm Babür, Ph.D. Student in Social Psychology, University of Southern California
imageBeing excluded isn't easy, but it does teach you about other people.Alistair Berg/DigitalVision via Getty Images

Imagine finding out your friends hosted a dinner party and didn’t invite you, or that you were passed over for a job you were excited about. These moments hurt, and people often describe rejection in the language of physical pain.

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